Believe a Man When He Says These 3 Things

He is at his most honest when he risks losing you.

Communication between men and women is often a challenge.

When we do say what we mean, there’s always the risk the other side might miss the point.

In romantic relationships, our expectations often get in the way of clear understanding. We hear what we want to hear, not what the other person is saying.

And sometimes we say what we think the other person wants to hear, especially if the fear of losing them surpasses our appreciation for honesty.

Both men and women may lie in order to keep a partner around, but men are especially honest when the truth may cause them to lose the woman he loves.

Women often make the mistake of believing only what they want to believe instead of what their male partner is telling them, often banking on their ability to make a man change his mind in due time.

It’s easier to fool yourself into believing you can change him and everything will work out in the end than take him at his word and accept this means the two of you want radically different things — and might not make it as a couple after all.

Here are three things you should believe a man when he tells you, and forget once and for all the idea that you can guide him into changing his mind:

According to popular wisdom, when someone says they’re not ready for commitment, they actually mean they’re not interested in making a commitment to you.

That might be true in some cases, but it might also be true that this person is not looking for commitment, period. With you or anyone else.

Ladies, when a man tells you he’s not interested in commitment, believe him. Don’t build a narrative in your head around the many reasons why he might change his mind.

Yes, he might change his mind, but it’s not your job to make him get there by force — and it’s not healthy for you to count on that change as if it were inevitable, or only a matter of time.

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